Step Sibling Rivalry

As an adult in a blended family we’re given plenty of opportunities to think we’ve got it tough, but what about the kids? Children in a blended family have gone through two major upheavals in their short life. Firstly the loss of their bio parent’s relationship and secondly the formation of the new blended family, both of which they have had little or no say in. Now some children respond more positively to blending than others; their age can have some bearing on this. If a child in your family isn’t welcoming of a stepsibling, don’t allow put-downs to go unnoticed. Take them aside (so they don’t feel shamed) and address the undesirable behavior. Have some clearly defined family values and use the opportunity to reinforce them, e.g. “In our family we treat each other with respect by …”.

Here's your chance to help others by sharing what you’ve done to help build positive stepsibling relationships in your blended family. We look forward to your response!

Warm regards
Adele Cornish BSW
Blended Family Advisor